About Us

From Fine Wine to Finding Home
For over 25 years, Tami built lasting relationships in the world of premium wine and spirits, as a WSET III certified Sommelier, showcasing her dedication and passion for excellence. During that time as a sales leader and District Manager, Tami learned that success isn't about pushing product, it's about understanding what people truly need and delivering it with care and expertise.
Retire & Refine Consulting was launched bringing that same philosophy to senior living placement - building long lasting relationships and finding solutions that meet our client's needs. Our journey started in 2009 with personal experiences that highlighted the emotional and logistical difficulties families encounter during transitions.
Here's the truth: Finding the right senior living community shouldn't feel like a sales pitch. It should feel like someone genuinely cares about your family's unique situation and is committed to finding the perfect fit.
That's what we do. We listen. We learn what matters most to you and your loved one. We guide. We advocate. Then we curate options that align with YOUR needs.
My mission is to restore hospitality to senior living, where every person feels valued, every family has peace of mind, and every transition is handled with dignity and care.
"My background in hospitality, combined with certifications from the Court of Master Sommeliers and Wine & Spirit Education Trust, gives me a unique perspective: excellence in service never goes out of style, whether you're recommending a wine or a home.
Let's talk if you're navigating senior care decisions...and I'm always up for a conversation about wine, too.🍷" - Tami Weller, Founder and Senior Living Placement Specialist
Tami Weller, Senior Living Specialist, Founder

"Age is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and growth"
Betty Friedan
